“What Is Personal Space?”: 50 Funny Pets Who Know No Boundaries (New Pics)
There’s nothing like coming home to your beloved pets after a long day. They run up to you asking for cuddles and suddenly everything feels right in the world. However, some cats and dogs don’t seem to understand the meaning of boundaries—in the most wholesome way possible.
Our animal-friendly team here at Bored Panda has collected the most soul-healing and goofy photos of people’s pets completely ignoring their personal boundaries. They’re incredibly relatable if you happen to have any snugglebugs at home. And for anyone who doesn’t yet have an animal BFF, well, don’t blame us if you have the sudden urge to rescue someone from your local shelter.
The friendly team at the PDSA, the UK’s largest veterinary charity, was kind enough to shed some light on why our pets want to spend so much time close to us. Scroll down for Bored Panda’s interview with PDSA Vet Nurse Shauna Walsh, who shared some great insights.
“It’s not uncommon for pets to want to be close to their owners and spend time with them—some pets are social animals and being with their owners brings them joy. Often owners are their pet’s whole world and spending time with their owners is one of the key points of their life! Owners can bring pets a sense of happiness, making them feel secure and safe,” Walsh, from the PDSA, said.
“Pets are often inquisitive creatures, wanting to know what you’re doing and be involved in anything exciting happening around them. Whilst we know we’re just popping into the bathroom—our pets don’t know that and don’t want to miss out on whatever exciting thing you are up to!” the vet nurse told Bored Panda.
“Some pets do take real comfort in being physically close to their owners, snuggling up to them or sitting on their laps,” she said. “It can be equally comforting to owners to have the constant companionship of a pet, but sometimes pets can’t understand the ‘personal space’ that us humans might need!”
It’s absolutely fantastic when your pet acts affectionately toward you instead of ignoring your need for cuddles, playtime, and warm naps together. Depending on your pet’s character, it might spend far more time in your company than some other members of its species. But no matter how aloof a floof might be, they still enjoy the occasional snuggle (though perhaps on their own terms).
By being physically next to you, your pets show you that they appreciate and—dare we say it?—love you. Either that or they enjoy how warm you are. Being in contact with another living being is pleasant, calms us down, and can boost our mood. No animal and no human being can thrive for long without constant physical contact.
However, no matter how much we might love our animal besties, it can be a bit difficult to get anything done if they always want to be close to us. Working from home can become next to impossible when all your cat wants to do is nap on your keyboard or sit on your shoulder.
Similarly, if you want to work out or have chores to do, your canine companion jumping on top of you all the time can make things very messy. Cuddles are great! But work projects, exercise, and housework don’t do themselves.
Don’t even get us started about pets who feel that it is their solemn duty to follow you into the bathroom every single time that nature calls. Some owners don’t mind the company. Others, however, wouldn’t mind a spot of privacy every now and then. Having some personal space is important, whether you’re talking about people or pets.
If your lovable catto or doggo keeps invading your personal space and making life extra hard (though undoubtedly wholesome) for you, you may need to start setting some gentle boundaries. You could start off by explaining to them why having at least a smidge of privacy is necessary, then listening to their side of things, and looking for some sort of compromise. However, the odds are that your message won’t get through to them, even if you have a whole slideshow presentation ready.
You’ll have to teach them what your boundaries are over a long period of time. You’ll need a lot of patience and consistency.
According to the ‘Dezi & Roo’ blog, setting boundaries with your cat might be difficult, but it’s not impossible. You should aim to create a routine in your life so that your pet knows what to expect.
For instance, when it’s time to eat and play. You should also make sure that the animal has something to do while you’re working or out of the house, so that they’re not bored. You should have at least a small collection of toys to keep them engaged and moving.
Similarly, if your cat’s always sitting on top of your head or your dog’s favorite activity is lying on your lap, you may want to consider setting up a dedicated area for them in a corner of your home. Alternatively, they might be bugging you because they’re not physically and mentally stimulated enough.
You’ve got to find the time to play with them and take them for walks. If they’re tired enough, they might behave differently.
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